Personal Profile

I love life and am immensely grateful for the opportunities the universe has given me. I live in the now while creating the next stage in my life. Years of spiritual practice have helped me become peaceful, relaxed, intuitive, grounded, and balanced. I’m in an amazing place in my life and am seeking one woman to share it with.

I am well-traveled, quite healthy, spiritually tuned, deeply authentic, emotionally intelligent, consistently optimistic, deeply loyal, playfully affectionate, madly passionate, a patient listener, and a nice guy. I'm happy doing guy stuff (e.g., fixing and building things). Now I want to build an amazing relationship with a spiritual woman who believes travel feeds the soul.

I'm a versatile guy:

~ Friend and confidant (deep conversations/quality time)
~ Handyman (honey-do list/acts of service)
~ Personal trainer (certified)
~ Tech-support (🤓)
~ Life coach (body, mind, and soul for 15+ years)
~ Business consultant (MBA)
~ Banker (domestic and international)
~ 5'8", Gemini, Life Path 5, Enneagram 7, ENTP

Where I came from: No matter what life threw at me, I worked harder. Living in shelters, group homes, and a foster home while attending six high schools in four years was challenging, yet the most valuable lessons in my life came during my teenage years. For example, I learned I could adapt to anything while keeping focused on a goal. I now welcome adventure because I learned the importance of experiencing different places. Determination is a value I've continued, which led me to work, live, and be educated across Asia, Europe, and the US (worked in 23 countries). Travel and spirituality have guided me to let go, and become centered and confident. Now, my life’s focus is to give back by sharing the tools I learned during an incredible life (aka emotional intelligence).

Why Am I single? I was in a serious relationship until late last year. I took some time to heal (on a beach in Mexico) and voilà. Previously married twice, no kids. Hopefully, the third time is a charm.

I am a real guy, but I’m not perfect. After 15+ years of inner work, I’m still finding gunk to let go of. I love to eat but can barely cook. (I am a great sous chef.) No matter how healthy I eat, I still have an occasional cheat day. I am comfortable being an Alpha, but love hugs. I sometimes give people more chances than they deserve. I can’t multitask to save my life. I have a case of selective hearing because I may be so focused on something. If I’m in front of a computer, you may have to poke me first to get my attention.

Hobbies (would prefer to do these with my partner):

  • Often: Travel/Weekend getaways, Motorcycle rides, Jeeping, Race car driving, Live concerts/theatre, Reading, Dog foster parent, Meditation, Gym, Health and Wellness

  • Occasionally: Boating, Kayaking, Scuba diving, Photography, Volunteering

About you: A remarkable woman who is ready to create an extraordinary long-term relationship. You are internationally aware and indulge in all that life has to offer. You love to learn by experiencing life and want a committed partner by your side to share perspectives and ideas. I’m not expecting someone perfect, just a woman who is willing to nurture the relationship as well as each other.

About us: Our core relationship values are spiritual, meaning we eagerly learn from any culture, religion, or philosophy. We willingly share what we’ve learned, and support each other’s growth and desires. We help each other become better individually and as a couple. We both have done the inner work and have already let go of baggage so we enter the relationship as free spirits, able to flow flexibly and effortlessly into each other. Together, we decide what an epic, life-long relationship should be.


My primary love languages are:

  • Quality Time and Physical Touch (holding hands, hugs, PDA)
  • Secondary love language: Acts of Service


A few of my favorite quotes:

The longer I live, the more convinced I become that life is 10 percent what happens to us and 90 percent how we respond to it.
~ Charles Swindoll

The only thing for sure is that you are here, that you are alive, that this world is full of wonders.
~ Spinoza

It's not how many breaths you take, it's how many moments that take your breath away.
~ Maya Angelou

Try anything and everything you want, as long as it does not hurt yourself or anyone else.
If you don't like it, it was an experience.
If you like it, do it again!
~ AR

You don’t stop playing because you get old.
You get old because you stop playing.
~ George Bernard Shaw